How you feel about your gender is totally particular to you.

How you wish to explore your gender in whatever expression is your decision. There is no time line only yours. You explore your own style at your own pace. It is quite common to feel that you have to present that person you have declared yourself to be, if you experience yourself as transgendered you may feel a need to follow a certain dress code to affirm the gender you feel you are. You are free to dress how you feel comfortable. My experience is you find yourself  in your own time. Change happens unforced and flows. It is not a question of pushing the river, rather flowing with the river.

Take your time.

Be well

Be Happy

Be safe